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I do not share the mailing list with anyone. If you choose to subscribe, you will receive a newsletter from me once a year. On November 1st, your Desiring Normal Annual Update will appear in your box. It will include links to new content found on the website, updates to posted content, links to valuable research, and other bits of important information.

is there a topic that you need addressed?

If you wish for me to cover a certain topic, feel free to drop me a line on the contact me tab. I will research the topic and do my best to address it within a month. Thank you in advance for your thoughts and ideas!
 

This website will never be finished

This website will always be a work in progress. Research changes. New information emerges. My healing is a continuous process. Therefore, I promise that if information changes with any topic that I have discussed, I will let you know in the annual update.

 

Spirituality

I am a Christian. Therefore, you will not find information relating to any other faith on this website. You will find this ideological bias most often in the Spirituality section of my website, although the bias will be felt throughout the website. I have found great love and healing in Christ alone, and since I seek to share all facets that have aided in that healing, I cannot consciously ignore the Christian facet. If you are opposed to the Christian faith, please use the information that is helpful to you and bypass the information related to Christianity. Thank you for understanding my bias!
 

disagree with me?

I have attempted to research as much information that I can for each topic. I have also tried to give a non-biased account of my healing. However, just because certain facets, pieces of information, or roads of healing have been helpful to me, it may not be helpful to you. Please feel free to contact me regarding your opinions on anything! My perspective may need a freshening up, or we may be in for a lively debate. IRON sharpens IRON. Either way, the purpose of my website Desiring Normal is to share what I have uncovered in my healing journey so that your journey is aided.
 

Need friends on your journey?

Desiring Normal will be developing groups that combine participants who have not been affected by abuse with participants who have been abused. I am working on the year curriculum program and the mentoring curriculum at this time. I have found this type of group exceedingly healthy for healing. Please reach out if you are interested in getting a Desiring Normal group together through your local church or nonprofit!